On my laptop so I can answer this in detail.
Right uhh...I googled group chats to find out, I would've typed in 'ungodly' but the only WhatsApp groups I've made are for shopping lists.
Ahem, so what Haku seems to be explaining (sorry, I find this funny) is people coming together and flirting. This happens on virtual reality games, it happens across the social media platform.
They've recently created a game called Dream Daddy for homosexuals who want to raise kids on a virtual game
Um...okay so what Haku is describing is probably a 3some on these games. The net is where people show their dark side and it can lead to real life.
Unfortunately there are a lot of predators on the internet, and a lot of non-Muslims are after Muslim girls. And there is me, the single Muslim woman. My reasons for being on games and for 'chatting' is probably a lot more deeper than it seems. Most of the Muslim people I came across were not good to me from a young age. Many Muslim guys & girls tried to take advantage of me, so I was bullied a lot in high school from guys. On their own they didn't say anything, it was in groups. They would throw stuff at me, swear and even physically try to hurt me. I'm not playing the victim card here, it is what happened.
I even ran out of class and my exams, despite all that I still passed my exams. I was put for the higher papers so even from running out half way through, I did it.
All Muslim people said was that you attract them, it's your fault. So I turned back and forth from the non-Muslim community to the Muslim one.
One Muslim guy kept pestering me about why I wasn't fasting until my non-Muslim friend told him the reason why. He still didn't get it.
Without attacking anyone, the non-Muslim community has what is missing in the Muslim community. Unity, protection, understanding, strength, friendship and that's what I found there. Came back to Muslims, they're hypocritical, judgemental, not understanding and it's like where do you go? Many South Asians and Arabs think they're better than everyone else. No-one is focusing on what really matters. Some brothers on here, saw me in distress and there would've been so many reasons why. Instead of talking to a distressed person and giving them decent Islamic advice it was like 'see a therapist.' Bro you are the problem in our society, your mama never taught you to handle and talk to a woman.
The dangers of girls being online are grooming gangs, they pose as one person and are really two different people. Luckily I haven't met them, but there will be some after vulnerable girls. Their problem? They are socially messed up and don't have open dialogue with anyone. Everyone is reserved and suspicious that they can't talk to another Muslim who is distressed and that's very common. I'm not saying be their therapist, all we need is someone who can actively listen and understand us. Sadly there doesn't seem to be many that are willing to even try, so I'm not going to waste my time.
As for stupidity and ignorance, it exists in the Muslim community too.
Ps. I vouched for you to be a mod. But don't let it get to your head.